Title | : | comparison sucks. here's why it can't be self-helped away. |
Duration | : | 36:12 |
Viewed | : | 5,602 |
Published | : | 17-06-2024 |
Source | : | Youtube |
👉🏾 get a FREE ebook when you sign up for my muse-letter: https://ayandastood.substack.com 🚀 Work with me 1:1 on creativity and/OR visibility to unlock your next level: https://ayandastood.com/coaching 📖 Buy my ebook of creative catalysts for a JUICY supply of creative inspo: https://ayandastood.com/creativecatalist 🧘🏾♀️ Buy my creative meditations album to move from fear to flow: https://ayandastood.com/creativeactivations “comparison is the thief of joy” they say, a quote originally from Former US President Theodore Roosevelt (random!). but what does the idea that we just "shouldn't" compare ourselves to each other ignore, and in turn, normalize? find out in this soul session. Time stamps: (02:46): Shame & comparison (03:49): Individualism (06:28): Crisis Response (Bayo Akomolafe) (09:08): The Myth of Normal (Gabor Mate) (14:25): Atomization & Authenticity (Byung Chul-Hun) (22:06): Collective path (25:11): Social structures (26:42): Comparison as a cultural cold (33:36): Reimagine social systems (34:40): Essay: Comparison as Symptom (Me) (34:54): Thank you for being here Sources Mentioned: Podcast: Jung and the World Podcast: One to One with Bayo Akomolafe (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cdB109t0_Xs) Book: The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture by Gabor Maté (https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-myth-of-normal-trauma-illness-and-healing-in-a-toxic-culture-gabor-mate/17446136?ean=9780593083888) YouTube: Dr. Gabor Maté: The Myth of Normal & The Power of Connection | Wholehearted (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X0cODqqYyi8&t=795s) Book: The Disappearance of Rituals: A Topology of the Present by Byung-Chul Han Writing: Bayo Akomolafe (https://www.bayoakomolafe.net) Podcast: Philosophize This: Episode #189 ... Everything that connects us is slowly disappearing. - Byung Chul Han pt. 2 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JXGvIGqZSuI) Essay: Comparison as Symptom by me on my Substack (https://ayandastood.substack.com/p/3-comparison-as-symptom) ADVICE COLUMN: ☎️ seeking advice and want to PHONE IN with a question? submit a voicemail here: https://www.speakpipe.com/ayandastood 📩 OR WRITE IN an advice question anonymously here: https://otvw5bi958a.typeform.com/to/FuYWZsKC JOIN THE COMMUNITY: my muse-letter: www.ayandastood.substack.com please join me here! TikTok: @ayandastood (https://www.tiktok.com/@ayandastood) IG: @ayandastood (https://www.instagram.com/ayandastood/) Website: www.ayandastood.com CREATIVE RESOURCES: ✨ Work with me 1:1: https://ayandastood.com/coaching ✨ Buy my ebook of creative catalysts: https://ayandastood.com/creativecatalist ✨ Buy my creative meditations album: https://ayandastood.com/creativeactivations
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